It is hard to believe that in only a few days, this entire experience will draw to a close and we will be flying home to be with family, friends, our Rotary Clubs and for some of us, our jobs! It was just two weeks ago that most of us were heading to airports, to fly to Newark and to meet one another (most for the first time) and then wing it over to Delhi, India! So much has occurred since that time, and we will be recalling events for weeks to come - little vignettes where we might have seen a woman in a beautiful sari, or caught the glimpse of a smile on the face of a child, or watched as a tiny child swallowed those two tiny drops of life we administered at the National Immunization Day on February 11th.
Akram Ali, our guide while in Jaisalmer, met us at the hotel at about 8:30 and we all boarded our coach, once again happy to see Kristian and Bobbalou, our driver and conductor. This morning, Akram was taking us to a place most tourists do not visit - the Crematorium for the Royal Families. What is interesting to note from the photo at left, is the fact that bordering this Crematorium is a huge WIND FARM, where power is being generated from some 1800 windmills. This industry is beginning to flourish in India, and should be the answer for domestic power in the cities and towns, initially here in Rajasthan, and eventually throughout the country. At the crematorium, we saw marker stone after marker stone, where the once and future kings of Rajasthan have been buried, along with their wives.
As you can see from this marker, which is housed beneath a very elaborate yellow sandstone canopy roof, the king's marker is to the left, showing him as a warrior on horseback, and then his two closest wives shown on the next stone, and six more wives on the third stone. Hundreds of years have passed since members of the royal families have been buried on this hallowed ground. The custom, we were told, was that the deceased was brought to this crematorium, cremated, and then those attending would go to the small lake below and bathe themselves before returning to their homes, fully cleansed. As I mentioned, this king was buried along with his eight wives. The custom was for the wives of the king to practice sati - is a Hindu funeral custom, now very rare, in which the dead man's widow immolates herself on her husband’s funeral pyre. This is seldom practiced any longer, but was obviously a sign of highest regard and respect for the husband. While we were there, Akram also told us about jauhar. Evidently, several hundreds of years ago, during a huge war, the women who had remained at home were concerned that their husbands were losing the battles. The women felt that the warriors were thinking about them at home, rather than fighting, so they committed jauhar and built an enormous fire in a pit and they all jumped in (The immolation, en masse, of women and young children to avoid molestation by victorious invading army).
Following our visit to the crematorium, we returned to the walled city and wandered through the streets and alleys and back to some of the shops we had visited the day before. One of the Team wanted to purchase a few items at a shop in one of the Havelis, so we went there and Akram waved at us below, much as the king may have done hundreds of years before.
Below were booksellers, where we were able to find a printing of HOLY COW by Sarah MacDonald, a favorite of Joan Nickell, as well as one of her favorite expressions. Darlene found a few shops to interest her, as did Jay, Jo and I. I also wanted to return to Sarwar's CULTURAL AND FOSSIL MUSEUM, to take him the gifts my friend has asked me to deliver.
Akram and I returned to the Museum while the others shopped and explored other sights. One of the palaces had a guard at the entrance, and on either side of the portal, there were many hand-prints. These we were told, marked the place where wives of kings had shown their grief by painting their hands red, and then imprinting them onto the wall of the front of the palace. Jo had actually read something regarding this, before she arrived in India. We met with Sarwar again, and he asked if I would carry some of his original paintings - representing several different religions - back to the states and pass them on to my friend in Maine. I was glad to be able to do this for him.
We returned to our hotel for lunch, and then re-packing, to try to get all of the things we had purchased thus far, into our suitcases and duffel bags. We had already checked out of the hotel in the morning, before leaving for our sightseeing, so once more, Kristian and Bobbalou were waiting for us to board the coach for the last time. They would take us to the train station for yet ANOTHER overnight train ride - this time through the countryside of Rajasthan, eventually arriving in Jaipur the following morning. Joan was still waiting for a package to be delivered from one of the shops where she had purchased some pants to be made for her. We called Akram on his mobile and he arrived at the train station and brought the package for Joan out to the track where we awaited boarding on the train - our home for the upcoming thirteen hours. The hotel had packed us each a boxed dinner, which we would enjoy later on. We said our good-byes to Kristian, Bobbalou and eventually Akram. It had been a wonderful and wonder-filled couple of days, and we bid farewell to Jaisalmer. 
One of the lasting impressions we discovered was government authorized BHANG SHOPS - I will leave this to your imaginations. Another lasting impression was the little boy, shown in the photo here, at the entrance to his home, just playing on the front stoop, as so many of us may have done during our own childhoods. 
What OTHER doors would be opening for us???
He poured my tea and a bit of milk and about a quarter-teaspoon of raw sugar. This all in a demitasse sized cup… Shortly afterward, I realized that Pradeep was standing nearby, and when I turned my head to say “Good morning,” he smiled, placed his hands together in front of his chest and offered a “Namaste”. It was going to be another wonderful day, although a bit cooler than the day before.